We
all possess some degree of curiosity. The key is to respond
appropriately to those inquisitive feelings we get. Many people
waddle through life half asleep—their minds dull and disinterested.
When opportunities or novelties come along, they can be too
preoccupied or dull witted to even notice them. So paying attention
is crucial. As I wrote earlier, children—who have so much to
learn—are naturally curious; evolution has built that into them. As
we age, however, some of us lose that childlike sense of awe. We can
become complacent and bored; we tell ourselves that there's nothing
really new out there.
Unfortunately,
modern society seeks thrills, more than learning. We seek quick,
facile answers to life's quandaries; rather than taking the time to
probe deeper. People are encouraged to grab hold of facts, rather
than truly understanding things. As a wise person once said, “Facts
are not knowledge, knowledge is not wisdom.”
Are
some of us more curious than others? Sure, but is it because our
genetic makeup determines our level of curiosity, or can we cultivate
it? I'm convinced that we can develop our curiosity, largely because
it is an emotion, rather than an instinct. Instincts cause us to
behave in unconscious and fixed patterns. Emotions, however, can be
changed and developed. They are flexible and can be built upon.
I
did some research, consulting various essays and books on psychology
and philosophy, about ways to cultivate one's curiosity. I came up
with a list of eight practices that can help to strengthen one's
curious nature:
- Ask questions. Admit your ignorance and your need to learn. Acknowledging your ignorance is the best way to dispel it.
- Don't take things for granted. Remain skeptical about what you hear or read, and then check it out. Be open to surprise and the possibility of being wrong; it's a great way to learn.
- Don't label anything as boring or not worthy of your effort to understand. To do so just closes doors to insight and understanding.
- Don't judge things too quickly. Keep an open mind. Have the humility to admit that you are limited and that you have a need to pause and learn. This opens the door to change and growth.
- Read a wide range of things. Challenge yourself with new and different and unfamiliar material. Let it open your mind.
- Gradually increase the complexity of what you do. Don't settle for facile or easy answers.
- Seek excellence in what you do. Don't settle for shoddy or inferior behavior.
- Pay attention; concentrate on each task at hand. Be ready to notice and pick up on anything and everything that comes along. Be mindful.
That's
a great list to cultivate one's curiosity. I believe that by acting
upon some of these items, we can regain that natural sense of
inquisitiveness that children have. We can feel more alive and
excited. Yes, unlike the doomed curious cat, curiosity is healthy for
us.
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