We
may not be able to chat with an animal, but it is foolish to think
that there is an unbridgeable gap between us and them. They have many
subtle ways of communicating with each other and we can close that
gap if we allow ourselves to. If we let go of our myth of superiority
and permit the more primal parts of us to become involved, we can
realize a deeper connection to other animal species. A good way to
begin is to shut our mouth, slow down, pay attention, and open to the
possibilities that lie within.
I
have had a couple examples over the years of a kind of communication
with animals, that have deeply impacted me. In the first case I was
working in the yard when I had my attention diverted by birds
sounding an alarm. I looked toward the commotion and spotted a black
snake raiding a bluebird nesting box. A couple of nestlings had been
scattered to the ground and a couple of others had been eaten. I had
been enjoying watching these birds over the past few weeks, so I
chased the snake off, and replaced the scattered nestlings in the
box. I then had to repeat my intervention twice over the next hour or
so, as the persistent reptile returned for a follow-up meal attempt.
Later
in the afternoon, when things had quieted down, I sat in a swing
across the yard from the nesting box, contemplating the traumatic
incident. The father bluebird flew to a tree just a few feet away,
stared at me intently for a few minutes, and then flew back to his
family. These birds are very shy, yet this bird approached me and
perched close by. Was he thanking me? It felt like some kind of
communication.
In
the second case I had just returned from a 10-day silent meditation
retreat, so I was in a very calm state of mind. Walking down a path
through the woods, I spotted a tiny fawn ahead of me. I stopped and
simply watched it for a few minutes. Maybe I transmitted a message of
peace to the little guy, because it began to approach me, tail
wagging slowly and hesitantly. I moved equally slowly towards the
fawn, holding out my hand. As we came together, it reached out and
touched its nose to my hand. The fawn suddenly froze, as if to wonder
how it got so close to a human, then turned and bounced off into the
woods.
It's
not clear that these incidents were a case of cross-species
communication, but they sure were unique examples of finding myself
thrilled to have some kind of close encounter with a critter—a kind
of encounter in which the animal seemed to choose to approach me on
its own.